Change your perception. Give thanks for all the blessings that you have instead of worrying about what’s missing from your life. When we focus on what’s wrong, we magnify the issue and we create barriers between god and us. Not only that but we let the issue steal away our joy, peace and happiness. But if we start focusing on god and trusting him, things can change. A grateful heart and attitude is like good medicine. We need to count our blessings more often. We need to realize that our problems or concerns are out numbered by all the blessings god has poured out on our lives. If I were to ask you to take a piece of paper and divide it in half so that on one side you can write all the things you are grateful for and on the opposite side you can write all the problems you have, you would notice that you have less worries then you think. Writing things down helps us to put things into perspective. Many times I have a problem or two that sometimes feel like ten problems because all I do is think about them over and over till they overwhelm me. Yet by the same token, I can cast my cares upon The Lord and give him thanks for all the good things he has given me. For example, if I’m having marital problems I can ask god to help me in that area and surrender the matter to him. But this isn’t sufficient. I also need to praise and thank The Lord for all the blessings he provided. Like a faithful husband who is considerate and thoughtful. A husband who loves me and cares about me. The small things in life mean so much. Life is full of day to day moments and a lot of ordinary days than days where big events happen whether it be a big wedding or a funeral. Major events seldom happen as much as regular ordinary days. Take notice of all the blessing around you right now. Thank god for the ability to walk, talk or even eat without help. Thank him for your home, car and the people in your life. Stay focused and keep the right attitude. ALWAYS